Community & Discussion Guidelines

Community Agreement

  • Uphold our community values for care, context, and curiosity.
  • Maintain confidentiality of stories, self-disclosure, and other details shared within our meetings or asynchronous communication. But share the lessons and ideas we discuss far and wide.
  • Take up space. Everyone’s voice is important—including yours. 
  • Make space. Create the opportunity for others to share or ask questions.
  • Show up and take care. Our meetings are open to a variety of forms of participation: verbal, visual, written, etc. Cameras and microphones are always optional.
  • Ask questions. Whether they come up during our meetings or in between, ask. Your question benefits everyone.
  • Speak from your own experience. Stick to first-person language whenever possible. Make distinctions between what you’ve experienced directly and what you’ve observed in those you work with.
  • Question “normal.” Use this space to rethink your assumptions and practice taking others’ perspectives.
  • Welcome multiple ways of knowing. Empiricism and rational thinking are dominant forms of knowing in supremacy culture. But other forms of knowing and experience are valid, too.
  • Accept the challenge. You may confront uncomfortable ideas, hear about perspectives that are vastly different from your own, and feel a bit confused from time to time. Sit with it, ask for support, and get curious.

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